Thursday, November 3, 2011

Our First Introduction...


...to Noelani and Clive was very special.  Before, I go further though, I really need to state that skyping with your children is NOT normal and is usually not possible.  I would hate for other adoptive families to hope that they can skype with their future children when really, it is normally just not possible.  And to ask puts a huge pressure on the precious agencies and orphanages who serve us families.  This was a very special and unusual opportunity, and one that we all pursued for the sake of Noelani. 
Having said that now, the connection was very slow and unclear, so we were not able to see the children very well.  Communication was also hard.  They had an interpreter and the children would look to him/her to try to understand a few things that we were saying.  One sweet moment was when I said “we love you” to them, and Noelani looked to the interpreter to find out what I said, and then she repeated it back slowly in English.  Bless her sweet heart!  I cannot even imagine the fear that she must have...but I’m trying too.  We tried to show them a few things in the house, but I’m not sure how much they were able to see.  Noelani did a little dance for us - so stinkin’ precious and Clive was interested in just looking at the computer and trying to figure it out.  
When we had to say goodbye, all I could think was how much I love them and want to hold them in my arms.  We do think that the adjustments could be very hard for our daughter, and we are trying to prepare for that.  I must admit, I’m a little scared also.  But seeing them just made me love them more.  
We have a new prayer request...my sister in law, Karla, was going to come stay with the children to help Kalyn, but she is feeling very sick and may not be able to come.  We are praying for the LORD’s direction and leading in this.  We feel that Kalyn needs someone to stay with her...and if push comes to shove, Steve may have to say home and me go alone...not our plan A. 
Thank you all for your prayers and sweet encouragement for us.  We still do not have our TA, but are praying for it in the next few days. 

15 comments:

  1. Oh how precious!! We have been blessed to be able to skype with our girl (she is waiting in EE) regularly though out the summer and it is a rare and special blessing to have.

    Also, I could come stay with Kalyn!! What's better then two teenage girls holding down the house together?? ;)

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  2. Such wonderful news, Shonni! I will also be praying that everything works out so Steve can go with you to China.

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  3. This is so cool! I'm so glad you guys got the opportunity to see them. Praying all works out with the other kiddos so you both can travel!

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  4. Oh how VERY precious.... I must say that the bottom picture of you two...Show the signs of expectant parents....You both are GLOWING!!!!! what a blessing and though I know we don't know each other We do wish we were closer as we would offer our Family to you as Service to the Lord... We will be praying that He will provide a way for you both to be able to go...

    Blessings to you this day..
    Angelina

    P.S. can't wait to see the knew Picture for your header and Side Bar of your Growing family.. :)

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  5. Oh Shonni, I'm so glad that you had this opportunity. Praying for your sweet children, and also praying for someone to stay with your other sweet children.

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  6. What a beautiful blessing. Shonni you have such joy in your face at the sight of your children. I can't wait til you meet them in person!

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  7. How neat that you got to skype with your children! I'm sure just seeing your faces and smiles encouraged their hearts.

    I'll be praying that you both get to go pick them up.

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  8. I am so glad you could make a connection even if it was a little fuzzy around the edges. Praying for your travel plans to even out and that God will make His way where there seems to be no way. Also praying for your sweet daughter and her fears.

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  9. Tears are flowing! How beautiful! Praying for y'all! and with Sarah - I'm praying for someone to be able to come stay with the kids!

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  10. I am glad your had that precious opportunity. I am praying (right not) for your children and your plans, that they would go well. I cannot wait to see those precious kiddos.

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  11. What a blessing to have "met" your kiddos already. I will join you in praying for that elusive TA and that your family will be well cared for in your absence!

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  12. PRAYING!!! For you sweet children, and for plan A to work out- healing!!!!

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  13. The smiles on your faces are priceless. That is pure joy. I see your smiles, and all I can think of is, that they must be a reflection of the smile that we will see on Jesus' face when we meet Him face to face. Pure joy!

    :)

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  14. LOVE the photo of you and your hubby on the floor looking at your new little ones!!!!

    I travelled alone to get Gracie and enjoyed it actually. Of course I would have loved to have shared each day with hubby as well, but it just didn't work for our family this time. I trust that God will have the perfect plan as well for your family. I will be with you in spirit as you go!

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  15. How cool is that :) I will be praying for you and your family.

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